All i can say is : for me it took a while before i think my wife recognized my changed behavior. BTW this is just my analysis. But everytime i kept my head high, enjoyed my time with my daughter, kept my word for everything, but at the same time was strict with some boundary issues. For me this was huge 180 because in the past i really let my wife walk all over me.
But as i said it took a while for her to notice. As lot of folks here say it. Time is on your side. As they, become a 'man's man' and give some time. As 25 said, women do respect a man who takes charge. Things will change.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...
and give some time. As 25 said, women do respect a man who takes charge. Things will change.
