Question on Divorce Mediation. Has anyone on the board used a mediator to help decide how to divide assets? W and I have initial appointment for tomorrow afternoon. We have been very amicable throughout our ordeal, w has deferred all planning for finances to me. In our state mediator cannot file for d, l has to, or individual on their own. Just curious, what kind of experiences have people had? Any and all info would be appreciated. Thanks!!

m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!