snowman,
Giving your sitch some further consideration... I would also suggest that you consider finding a divorce/separation support gorup in your area. I have joined two different ones in the last two months, the friendships I am forming and the information I am getting have been invaluable in helping me cope with my sitch.
Good luck!


m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!