snowman, Sorry you are here, but you have come to a great place for support and wisdom. I am a relative newbie, and a bit older, but I would say to take to heart the advice you are being given here. The one hopeful aspect about your situation that I see is that your w is still going to IC. GALING AND Detaching is important, esp the GAL. If you are listening to the Love Dare, like I am, you are probably getting some good stuff out of it. I can see where you might think it conflicts with the LRT, but the message of faith is still very helpful.
Sit tight, continue to work on yourself, and listen to the others on this board, I wish you all the luck!
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O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!