Treading water - time and patience

[NYCPeter]

Agree the phone and being jumpy is a red flag, there are a number of red flags but at the end of the day I can't find anything concrete re: OM.

Over the next couple of days I will limit contact to calling my girls every night - if the W wants to chat that's fine otherwise I'll just talk to the girls.

Next hurdle will be moving back on Friday - she'll be at work by the time I get there and I'm going to sleep in the marital bed. It will be interesting to see if she joins me there or goes to sleep elsewhere.