I hear you. I'm not going to bring any 2x4's out because you know better already.. you're just kvetching and LOLing at it because it is absurd.
DBing is about you, but to a degree it is about how you express yourself to another person. Easier if you make real changes to you.. but sometimes you gotta roll w/ what you're experiencing.
There is no accounting for taste -- otherwise I would have never had any girlfriends!!
M: 32 W: 29 T: 9 Years M: 4 Years I hit rock bottom: 2/11 PA admitted: 4/11 WAW: 5/11 D filed: 6/11 now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.