What do you want?

What works best for you?

How 'nice' of her in leaving you for another man. So considerate.

Sorry, I'm clearly in anti-WAW mode this evening.

If she is threatening you, what recourse or means of protecting your interests do you have?

What do you think the "still cares about you and wants to know what your doing" thing is about?

When someone else tells you what you need to do - take a big step back and ask yourself why they would tell you that.

M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.