I'm glad you are doing ok Endeavor. I give you props for maintaining your composure and not stooping to this woman's level.
Thanks, DG. I can't say I haven't been tempted to send her a scathing email but it's beneath me and I won't give in to my dark side. But her claiming this all "wasn't fair to her" after knowing how she upset our kids still makes me very angry.
Originally Posted By: Telemark
E, I haven't posted much on your situation but I have been reading everything. I admire you for staying strong through this mess. You are very wise to be wary and cautious right now; your H is saying all of the right things, but now his actions - long-term actions - need to prove he is doing the right thing.
It's good to keep him a little off-balance regarding your R; you've got the control now, and I know you will use that control in the best way possible for yourself and your R with your H.
I salute you and hug you at the same time.
Thank-you for your kind words, Telemark. I agree with you on keeping H a little off balance and not being to eager to R. I'm treading very carefully because I'd be a fool to believe everything he is saying without giving it due time. Trust but verify.