WEll I 180'd things a bit by NOT just sulking about the love life issue. I picked a good time and told CJ that I wasn't happy about the way things were going.
He agreed. Made a few suggestions re sleeping arrangements which could help...but have failed in the past.
I said that I was going to re-read SSM and Dr. Phil's RR section on intimacy. Asked if he would too and he said yes.
I guess a good idea would be to get the books out and get started, huh?