W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore.

[Snowman]

Well I'm still not convinced right now that my wife has not cheated. She denied every time I asked and she even got mad at me when someone supposedly told her that I had been looking at the phone records and was calling all the numbers which is only partially true. I did look at the phone records but was not calling all the numbers. I did figure out over time many of them were males which did not make me happy. She texts me a while back when she supposedly found out that I was looking at the records that I had assume the worst. We exchanged text and I said screw it I'm calling her. She would not tell me who told her this (I'm pretty sure it was her drunk grandma that heard it from a brother) but I told her what do you want me to assume considering the circumstances. She asked my why I had not talked to her about it and I couldn't believe she even asked me the question. She wouldn't talk about us through text, email, phone, in face or any other form so why would I call her to ask is she was cheating on me or calling guys. She claimed the person she was calling has a sick or dying mom and that they did have late conversations and texting. I somewhat believe her because the guys which I know his name now is very religious but my wife has erased all her info of her Facebook when she dropped the bomb.
There was a pic posted by a supposed friend of the girl she is living with with a guys arm around her and her married friend. I told her I saw that and she claims it is just a friend. I asked her if she was dating anyone or seeing guys and she said no but she wants to but that would not be right. I think I might have posted that earlier. My wife has pushed away her entire family except for her father that she never really liked before and was the one that cheated on her mom and divorced her. Hmmm?

What does everyone think here about possible affairs.

I have been doing better at detaching. I have had not contact with her except when she asked me if I was going to pay the daycare lady this week. I said "Yep". The pain is getting less and less but still hard.

My wife claimed last time I talked to her that she was working on her communication problems and her feelings about me. I think now it is probably because she has cheated but I know she will never confirm that unless she decides to come back and maybe not then.

My wife is going to a psychiatrist early next month but I'm not suppose to know that. Her counselor is supposedly helping her get in so whatever her counselor sees points to major issues as well which cheating with psychiatric problems in not unusually at all. Not sure what to think but I will GAL and LRT for now until I think I know more. Please chime in people as to what you think. Thanks.