How I'd love to give you a big Texan hug right now. You are such a blessing to so many people on this board, including me. You are a true gentleman, TM.
I'm so grateful that you are busy with Travellers right now...for your GAL as well as for your pocket book! It's awesome you have that positive outlet.
I'm also glad things continue to go well for your son. I know that must make you feel great to get positive letters from him. And let me say that I'm lovin' your STBXW's 1st H's 2nd W (that confusing enough? ). I'm glad she has your back on this one. Thank her for me. In all seriousness, I'm so glad you will get to see SS22, as I have no doubt he misses you as much as you miss him. Bless his heart; I sincerely hope you and your children can remain in his life.
It is my hope for the loved ones in your W's life that she wakes up SOON, as I hate how many people are getting hurt in this nightmare. Continue doing what you're doing, and you will have no regrets.