She doesnt fill out the paperwork. On purpose, I think. Or maybe not. Then she blames you for not reminding her. What?????
And you dont answer her the way she wants you to....so, she lashes out -like the teenager she is right now.
So, you know how when you are upset with your teenager and you start to argue and they argue back ever more...until you realize you arent getting anywhere? And then you back off?
What usually happens?
This pull and push back and forth that she does with you - aint it starting to pis# you off a bit?
You are not going to get her back by continuing to pull on the rope. It's just going to make her pull back. And then you get nowhere.
Cut the freakin rope, Tad. Let her blow in the wind right now.
TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT!
She knows how you feel. And the more you tell her, the more she is going to dig in her heels to show you that you're wrong.