Random question here: how many of you still wear your wedding rings?
MTS, I think it means different things to different people. I still wear mine. My S has taken notice. He asked me once why I still wear it - I just told him it was because I'm still married. For me, it's symbolic. It's defiance of my W's game plan. Sometimes it's a reminder of why I'm "running this marathon" of you will. It's a reminder of who I am and what I stand for. It also tells other people who are aware of our situation where I stand. My W may have taken hers off long ago, but I am standing for my M.