TG:

Thanks for the encouragement and perspective...I agree wholeheartedly.

The reality is that it's going to be hard...no way around it. I just need to focus on the tasks at hand, not get bogged down by the uncertainty and fear that goes along with it, and remember to focus on the the "bigger" picture--the opportunity to become a "better", happier me.

In terms of update, I'll require communication with the WAW this week as part of dealing with the gory details of the D proceedings. These interactions have not been fun, as I struggle with protecting myself and not reinforcing her beliefs that allow her to demonize me.

I know it isn't dropping the rope, but I wrestle with the perception from the WAW. I know the experienced folks here are right, no point in worrying about what's she's thinking...just need to do what's best for me.


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M: 47; W: 39
M: 4.5 yrs; T: 18 years
No children
Separated: 01/19/11
Wife Served Papers: 02/1/11
Wife moved: 03/05/11
Responded: 04/14/11