You know it seems the whole idea of the OM was planted by this very "supportive" group. Before that Cam when to great lengths to say why he didn't think there was an OM.
but it's really beside the point, now. His W doesn't want to reconcile with him right now.
If Cam found an OM, I think he's just being honest with himself and us. We all have our deal-breakers. For some it is a PA, for some it is an EA, for some it is drug abuse, others emotional abuse, etc.
Cam will have to live with the decisions he makes, I just pray that he has enough strength and wisdom to make the best decision for him.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.