TM,
No 2x4's here.

If you need to move on and heal.. do so. Only you know what's best for you.

I only say time for your sake.. not your w's.

I too feel that if I would reconcile with my w, building trust and respect would be difficult.. especially since I'm not sure we ever had it.

However..

I hesitate to use the words "never, always, forever". I find them untruthful and limiting. We just don't know what our future has in store for us.

But it's ok to say we are done.. and let the cards fall where they may.

We are here for you. Dealing w/ D is..well.. sukky. It doesn't get easier just because we feel it is 'time' or the 'right' thing to do.

(( ))

M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.