A bit more journaling from my conversation with D14 this evening
W was also telling D14 that she had brought more furniture to make it feel like home.
I can understand this but W need to think not about material things (as she also told kids last week she would buy them new clothes but never did in the end) but about how she interacts with them and what she has and is doing.
D14 said there had been arguments over the weekend, esp shouting at S12 over building the wardrobes W had purchased, saying he was doing it wrong, he is 12!!!! But again W wants others to do her work for her, like finding answers to why the kids what to be with me more and not her.
I tend to have good conversations with D14, as she understands more. I am so proud of her, and tell all my friends about her!!! and S12 of course
Anyway
D14 also said that W was asking questions over my female friend, the same as she had directly to me!
Plus, W had been asking D14 if I ask about her at all, and if I have even asked about OM, no which D14 replied, “no, he never asks” LOL, apparently W was taken back
In addition (LOL) W has also said to D14 “why is dad so calm” and that she thought I would have been very different!!!!!
I have told D14 that if I ever ask direct questions about W then she is to refuse (not that I have or will do) and this is for me, and D14 understood why
Off bowling in a mo, I like this GAL with the kids (brothers family coming also)
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
