Let me say that I do not believe it is our job to define someone elses boundaries. Cam will need to do that for himself.

But let me add...

At this point OM is only a discussion and a possibility, nothing has been proven.

Second, cam, honestly, I do not believe you have a clear enough head right now to make a major decision about the rest of your life.

So cam, my advice for you, as it has been, is simply to fix cam. This is what YOU can do. It is not dependant on anything she is or isn't doing. It should be done whether you R or not. So make this your priority.

Find your center. Find your strength. Don't let her actions define you.

BITS

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.