NP, TM... of course, it could have been said in MUCH fewer words...
At this time, I might recommend taking a look at some of the other forums on this board if you haven't already...
Specifically the "Divorced but not done" and "Surviving the big D" forums for those who are now at that point... and still dealing with the WAS...
Also, the MLC forum, as there too... we can read how a WAS, even years after a D, can still operate from their... self centric perspective... how... even AFTER D... they continue to keep contact with the LBS...
Those are really good examples of how, it very often does not matter what the LBS does... no right or wrong... this stuff is just like the energizer bunny...
Your time... your pace... that is all an LBS can control...
