Well, W keeps up with her taunting about the divorce by sending me emails at work asking me to pay the fee to have me served.
I know I shouldn’t have, but I asked her if she has any idea of the impact of what she’s doing and if she feels justified in throwing her husband out of the house in the fashion that she did? I also asked her that despite of all the nastiness she has done, does she not see how I was still honoring her as my wife?
Her reply was that she didn’t see me in that light and (sarcastically) that her mind is clouded in that aspect. Then she went ranting that she suffered for 20 years until she couldn’t do it anymore. Then she went on SCREAMING in fury that shes never done anything wrong and there is nothing wrong in brining OM into the house!
Her fury was to the point that if I put a light bulb to the phone, it would of lit!
Then she kept on about how we just never got along and that I’m a loser for staying with my dad.
She said that I have to stop spending so much time at church and quit my worship team and find a second job.
Real nice comment from someone that chooses not to work and stay a full time student while she is supported by me and her mother.
It’s not my preference to do this. It’s all a financial thing. She actually thinks that I really like living in a retirement home. Yeah, I was hoping that we were going to reconcile so I stayed. Actually, I was almost convinced that we were going to make it. But now that OM is in the picture, it has become obvious that its done. Now, I feel foolish.
She doesn’t seem to realize all the $ I’ve been spending on the kids and on her child support. And, most roommates won’t accept kids. She just doesn’t care.
Her being adamant about our situation makes me think back and try to remember where I went wrong to deserve this. I do recall that after her plastic surgery, she started becoming distant and she started changing. But, still and all, even last year I remember her telling me we were meant to be together forever. At the very beginning of our separation, she said that one day we were going to renew our vows. Now she claims she never said anything like that. She had also told all our friends that she didn’t want a divorce, that she’s been with me for 20 years and she didn’t want to lose that.
Look at her now….
What a web of emotions….
Me: 37 W: 37 Married Feb 14 1997 Seperated Thanksgiving weekend 2010 No divorce filed yet 1st born son:13 2nd daughter:9 3rd son:4 Trying hard to detach
