Hey TM,

No 2x4's from me.

You've done a lot of hard work. You've made a lot of very real changes.

Your W has clearly set up her situation as she chooses to, and you aren't obliged to assist her in doing so.

M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.