Because I believe if he truly is miserable it means eventually he will get help and eventually want to come home. To me it is proof he is not happy where he is and what he is doing. Its not the life he thought it would be. After his last visit my PMA went bad. He [censored] me back into his craziness. Honestly, for my sake, I want to know hes not happy with this OW. Doesn't nessecarily make me happy but maybe helps my ego?!?! I am just being honest. Like he didn't leave me for her. That his unhappiness means she is NOT meeting all of his needs. Because if she was and he was loving life- why isn't he happy? By carry on I meant with the D. My oldest would like me to slow the process as he thinks his dad is seeing some light. During our conversation with my H my oldest brought up the death of someone who died 5 years ago. My husband was fairly close to him. As soon as my oldest mentioned the name of the person who died my H burst out into tears. As if this person just died yesterday! What the heck?!?! Yes, I am a mess this morning.
