As everyone says on here, believe nothing they say and half of what they do.

If ex husband #1 is the father of SS22, then she may be telling XH#1 that SS22 has his own room because she wants him to think he's okay.

I certainly can understand the pain and urge to react, but I would caution you to take it a little slower to further confirm what's really going on.

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012