If I know this then i feel it will help me move on, and I will stop hoping for her to reconsider. I will then know it's over.
That's your pride talking. Lose it.
I can't. I can't imagine being with her ever again if she has been with someone else...i could never trust her or look at her like I did again.
Pure script. We've all heard it. Ignore it. I do, I know it's bullish!t, we had a pretty good life together, better than most. I gave her everything she wanted, except I wasnt the husband she expected at times.
[/quote] Very conditional love from you Cam. You wanna save your marriage or not? Or only on your terms? Marriage is a two-way street buddy. [/quote]
Of course I do, but if there is an OM then I don't, I want to move on and put it past me and it is her loss. I know I sound selfish or illogical, as I am so desperate to be with my W again, but I just could never bring myself to trust her again or it would never leave my thoughts.....I don't deserve that. I've beat myself up a lot over this and I've done and changed everything in my life she asked for, yet she still never gave me a chance. Also, she has too much pride in herself to go back.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011
