But if its the case, then it is definitely over: I would never want her back.
That's your pride talking. Lose it.
Originally Posted By: cam
- As I mentioned, she looks at every memory of us as tainted and finds fault in things, nothing was good now according to her. She is completely crazy as we had some great times, many in fact and were so close for so long. She now puts that down to her being young when she moved here and was looking for support. She just seems to be making sh!t up.
Pure script. We've all heard it. Ignore it.
Originally Posted By: cam
Yes she probably is with another guy and yes I have been completely played for a fool. Actually thinking about that makes me detach easier, as I get so angry and p!ssed at her I never want to see her again.
This isn't all bad. Your anger can be your armor. But use it as your shield not your sword.
Originally Posted By: cam
I am a very trusting and loyal person. To find out she has betrayed that loyality I have given to her would be the final nail in the marital coffin for us.
Very conditional love from you Cam. You wanna save your marriage or not? Or only on your terms? Marriage is a two-way street buddy.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
