I would definitely talk to a lawyer, how you respond to this will be important. The consultation is usually free. So sorry it has come to this. Like everyone else my advice would be to move back in. You'll have more leverage, you'll have your daughters, you'll have a place to live, you'll have more opportunity to DB, etc. If you move out, you have limited access to kids and no place to live, increased expenses, etc.
If you move back in and she does file, that's still OK, the divorce process can take a year or more, so there is still time. Filing is not the finish line, it's the start of a brutal marathon, but you can use that time to continue to DB.
--Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
