Thanks for all the responses.

I like the point about time alone - it's bery hard to shake off the idea of an OM. If she has "just" fallen out of love with me - it doesn't really explain the seperate or D option.

Either way I'll find out more tomorrow evening.

M47
W45
D10 (Has CP)
D7
M12 T14
ILYBINILWY 5/1/11
Asked for seperation 5/10/11
Seriously DBing 7/1/11
W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11.
Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11
D - Final 7/11/12