Hey 4B... wish that things could be better for you...
Just thinking, you did a lot of 180s and you feel that things are going really well... couple things, here...
What do you want "more" of? What do you want better?
Also, your H says "the M is probably over"... so, cake eating or not, what you feel he WANTS or not... he's not just saying he's not sure, he's showing it, as well...
IOW, he's not chasing you... so... what could you do to GAL or 180 that would make you a real catch in his eyes?
Maybe he's just not into ANY R right now... but... we all chase the candy that we can't... quite... reach...