Wife no longer in love with me - Part 3

[Queen_of_Swords]

Hi Cam,
Did a quick read and a couple of things jumped out at me.
1) You cannot "make" anyone feel. They are responsible for their own feelings, as you are for yours. At this stage it is for you to work on not blaming others for how you feel. It is a choice on how you perceive things, good or bad.

2) You and she are separable from your behaviors. This is why DB works. You address the behaviors that cause disconnect. Again at this stage, it is for you to do that. That is your choice as well.
She has given up for the moment. That doesn't mean she gives up for good.

3) There are people that have overcome infidelity, you could choose to be one of them. Depends on how much you value your W and your relationship with her. Depends on if you can forgive her and on her earning back your trust.

Stranger things have happened.

Sorry if I'm not being too terribly diplomatic here...in a rush.