right -- it's not over until YOU decide it's over. Everyone has their own threshold --- If you still want to DB --- DB. I'm So sick of people saying to me 'get over it' 'move on' and 'you deserve better' and variations of those...

I want my family. You want your family. It is OUR call- not the therapist - not our friends, or well meaning family.

Keep the faith --- post here and remember we support your decisions. Either way. ****hugs****


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed