The same "urge" has been played out hundreds of times by other LBH's and it never works with a WAW! You need to get out there and GAL, stop acting the part of a victim, and start behaving like a confident male who deserves so much better than her excuse of a wife.
Can't say this enough. I wish I'd been on here sooner since the bomb dropped, but what sandi said has been true 100% of the time in my sitch. I wanted to "talk it out" and it would seem fine for the moment, but soon after regression became all too evident. GAL, be okay with being without W, and build yourself a better life. Maybe W will want to come along; maybe not. Either way, you've got a better life.
