Wife no longer in love with me - Part 3

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the likelihood of reconciliation is very low if that is the case and she has moved on to someone else.

Cam I feel for you, I do.

But step back and look at it from a wider point of view than just your W and you and all those memories.

In most cases when there is another person involved the only thing holding back reconciliation is the other person and your W.....

Meaning all those side concerns she brings up....are just that, they are not the real reason she left you....now it is a symptom, but those symptoms have probably been there for awhile and only then when another person entered the picture did we get.....what you may be dealing with now. Focus on those symptoms and what got you here.


Cam she still has you on her mind...it's obvious in her words and emotions.

I think you will see some progress if you really buckle down, detach from your W and what might be going on in her world and really focus on getting old Cam back with some new and improved outlook and growth.

She has you told you a lot....she misses that old Cam, the one she fell in love with. There is probably a lot of truth in that when she said it.

Find that person and really grow into it.

She said she wants to start splitting assets. I said no I don't want that, to which she said well I dont care when we do it, there's no rush so we'll do it when you're ready.

She is compromising with you here? Why? She doesn't have to.

We haven't seen each other or spoken properly in many weeks and then soon as we do its as if we've never been apart, we're great friends. She stated this.

Again these are good signs.

I think she is still on the fence a bit no matter how hard she is pushing for this.

I think she really wants to see something from you.

Do that.


It's not over until you say it is.