You getting in between her relationship with the kids is going to be catastrophic for you. No question. It won't end well at all.
She made her choices. She has her consequences to deal with. She will deal with them else she won't finish with her journey. Would you really want to rob her of that experience? The highs and lows of her choices?
As for your fear, stop. Stop fearing those things Tad. You CANNOT know that those things will happen. All you can know is that your W left. That she is angry and blames you. That she blames you, is angry and wants to be friends. That she lives in a blender of emotions and thoughts might be more accurate
You can't do anything about it except accept it. And stand clear. She'll figure things out with the kids when she AND the kids are ready to do it. That's their mother. They will find a way to mend the bridge.
Stay out of it though.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
