Well I haven't felt sad or lonely since she moved out and I couldn't figure out why. Heck, I even enjoyed the alone time that I had.

The therapist pointed out to me that since my W and I were still seeing each other 2-3 times a week, that the D didn't feel real to me yet.

She felt there was a part of me felt there was a chance we'd reconcile even though it seemed pretty unlikely.

After the argument Friday, virtually no contact this weekend, and now the Facebook status change, I am finally having the feelings of loneliness and sadness.

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012