Just to be clear, are we discussing before or after she walked out on the marriage?
Before she walked out, there were times when I was a jerk, but also many times when i did lovely things for her. Since she left, there have been many times when I was an idiot, mainly in the early days trying to get her to come home, but the last few mths I haven't really done anything as there's no proper contact.
I'm slowly coming to the realization and acceptance that D is inevitable and there is no turning this one around.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011
