(Sorry but it's true. Your true Dbing efforts get shelved often and you backslide a lot...)
Start by making the changes and not complaining that she has not promised to take you back.
That kind of talk makes your "changes" seem fake, like you will revert back to your old self as soon as she takes you back b/c
the only reason you are "changing" is temporary--(to get her back). AND SHE SENSES THIS....
If you were REALLY CHANGING, her opinion of it would not matter.
Your need for her to promise or guarantee you anything b/c you become the man you should have become is shallow, rick. (& I'm not saying she's perfect - but she's not here posting, you are).
You have to stop expecting a guarantee.
NONE of us have those. My h could quit the m tomorrow or get hit by a truck.
Doesn't give me an excuse to give up. I still have to GAL and be the best woman I can be.
Why not
become the man you were meant to be, and leave the results up to God?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
