What does it mean when an MLC'er is starting to open up? especially one like my H who is very private and reserved and introverted? Does it mean that he is more open to facing himslef and his problems?
Just this weekend he confided to his brother about his feeling stuck, and our resultant marriage problems. He also confirmed with him though that he was not thinking of leaving his family. I haven't been able to get the full story yet, but he said that everything was just confirming what I told him myself. His brother just listened, he said.
H did seem happier when he got back, and was talking to me a lot even.
Whe his fiasco this morning happened, and I asked him a few questions, I also sensed his openness even with me. He even reminded me of his efforts to make our relationship friendlier, like when he was texting me pictures of his trip, ad commented that he felt we were connecting more.
We are still slated to go to retrouvaille in November, and it doesn't seem like he is resistant. Whatever it is, he seems to be casing around now for some support, rather than going at it all by himself, and in my book, that seems to be more positive than negative.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
