and by inserting yourself, and apologizing you actually shouldered some of the responsibility...
to her, it just fuels the illusion that this is all your fault.
If you see our point I hope you can see that you didn't actually help the r she has with son, nor did you help her see a glimpse of reality.
you enabled her to blame others and remain blind to the damage SHE has caused. Was that your goal?
Of course not. You wanted her to feel comforted by you and then to love you back.
But that is not how to achieve that goal. IMO.
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