Another crisis.....but H opening up now

[angel61]

Ugggh.... I received a text from my H meant for OW this morning. It was just a plan "Good morning OW" kind of text. I didn't even see it, so he calls me and starts awkwardly saying "I'm sorry for the text, don't get mad" and I am "what?" and of course, when I heard what he said I just was speechless, and cut the call.

I then called him again, and he says, with a voice that sounds like coming from someone who has his heart in his shoes " you are mad". I said no, I am not, I am hurt.

Somehow, we got to talk about him and OW. He was saying again the they are "just friends",and that he is just helping her with her projects, that she doesn't call him anymore except for those reasons, and he does not talk to her about his problems in our M any longer.

Maybe I should give him the book "Not just friends?" I'm sure everyone will think that is a bad idea though.

Anyway, we ended the conversation on a humorous note: he sighed and said "its not just my day" and told me how he forgot his sunglasses in his rental car, missed his meeting, etc, now this.
It made me sort of laugh, especially in the context of what just happened, and I said "those days happen"