Aeo, You ask alot of good questions. My question to you is what do you want now? What are you okay with NOW?
I understand asking the questions about the future and what things will look like. I tend to do that ALL the time. I stop myself from making decisions about my present because I'm too worried about the future.
The truth is that we cannot possibly know how our actions will affect someone. Sure your w may cake eat - or she may do a 180. If we knew.. we would be God.
That's why we look at our motives to our intentions and actions now because that is all we can control. I truly believe that if every action comes from a loving place (whether loving ourselves or another person) than the consequences will be ok.
Being loving does not mean you allow cake-eating. It does not mean you allow being a doormat. However is also doesn't mean. It does not mean you can be selfish, or that you don't put yourself first sometimes.
Love is hard.
It's a very complex word and get tricky.. that's why we must look deep within ourselves to find the answers. That's what separates us from our WAS.
Also just out of curiousity, do you always tend to ask w so many questions?
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Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
