Thanks you so much for your thoughtfu l reply. That gives me a lot to digest and research.This is going to take some time and not be an overnight choice and I am appreciating the different/same POVs I am getting. There are lots of things I could do better but then again my "love tank" is empty I think. But if I try to fill his then maybe it will be reciprocal??? I will post more after I do some more research and thinking. just in case someone else out there is going through something similar
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12