I know I've seen several references to the GAL program, but can't seem to find a description of it on this site. I seem to remember talk about "getting a life" and doing things on your own and not hanging around waiting for your wife to give you sex, or something like that?

Well, I've got my hands full with my own activities too, so I'm not sure how that would apply to me if I understand it. I'm not spending any time at all expecting sex from my wife.