My sitch is over! She was having an affair with an older guy (who just happens to be in the Marine Corp). We got divorced and I am very happy with myself and who I have become. If you follow the steps in the DB book, you might be able to save your marriage...but you will ABSOLUTELY save yourself! Without that book, and this forum, I have no idea where I would be right now. I would probably be a very angry and miserable person.
