"As she has flat-out denied this and there is no proof I am not sure what else I can do."

My W flat-out denied her relationship with the OM, right up to and including the time he moved in with her.

Believe nothing she says. If she says the sky is blue, go outside to verify.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
BITS