Cam,

The common thread weaving through a lot of these posts is that you need to immunize yourself emotionally from reacting so heavily to your wife.

I know, it hurts. But you need to give that pain more meaning than "I've blown it life is over" if you want to get through it and get beyond it.

Taking care of your issues, and your tasks will help you do that. You need to come up with a new role for Cam to play.. take some time and think about that.


M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.