And honestly, you said you were a jerk so if she found someone else to fill her emotional need, there's nothing wrong with that. You made a mistake and are paying the consequences of that.
Just to be clear, are we discussing before or after she walked out on the marriage?
M: 32 W: 29 T: 9 Years M: 4 Years I hit rock bottom: 2/11 PA admitted: 4/11 WAW: 5/11 D filed: 6/11 now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.