You know, there's no one here, including me, that is saying it's wrong of you to take care of your own needs and not be "with" your w sexually if that's okay with YOU both. And It has been so far.
No, it has not been OK at all. That's the one thing about our marriage that is not OK. I guess it's hard for some people to understand that one can apply the word "happy" to any part of the marriage if the sex is not working. Which is funny because I've heard so many women say that "sex isn't everything"!
