Hi all!

Ok,now its getting to the point where she being downright nasty.

Weekend came and she's calling me to hurry and pick up the kids. When I got there, MIL was not home but OM was. No wonder she was in a rush for me to pick them up.

Here's the kicker, the MAIN complaint she had about me was that I was playing tooo much Xbox with my son. When I pick up my kids, they tell me that all the OM does, is play Xbox all day in MY gaming room. lol.

This morning she insisted that I go to her lawyers office and sign papers. I told her no! I asked her to have me served and I will take it to MY lawyer. It's seems now that she is really rushing the D.

When I told her no, she threw a fit screaming and stomping on the ground. She said "I'm paying for this! You just do want this divorce! Just sign the effing papers!"

I don't want to hold her back from what she wants, but I'm not stupid either to get divorced without a lawyer.

Any hope that I had is all but gone. However, I am at peace with whatever she does. God makes all things work together for our good.

I've chosen not to stand anymore and let God do his thing. I look fwd to living a happy life. As long as I have my time with my babies, that's all that matters. It just [censored] that she gets to keep them while she relives her teenage years, unemployed, full time student, boydreinds, and MIL wiping her a$$.

I wonder how the heck she can EVER hit rock bottom like this...


Me: 37
W: 37
Married Feb 14 1997
Seperated Thanksgiving weekend 2010
No divorce filed yet
1st born son:13
2nd daughter:9
3rd son:4
Trying hard to detach