Thanks DG, I am trying to work on myself, but it's hard, very hard as everyone knows. Seeing my dreams and hopes all disappear just kills me inside. I guess if I do know about an OM in some way it will help me to move on and get through this. I know in my heart that I would never want to be with her again, so it would be closure for me and I could get on with my life and stop holding out hope.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011