Thanks DG, I am trying to work on myself, but it's hard, very hard as everyone knows. Seeing my dreams and hopes all disappear just kills me inside.
I guess if I do know about an OM in some way it will help me to move on and get through this. I know in my heart that I would never want to be with her again, so it would be closure for me and I could get on with my life and stop holding out hope.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011