I'd like to encourage you to join us in the KLA 2011 group EVEN IF you don't have the materials. At least to begin with--because KLA taught me so much about expectations and looking at my relationship through my partners eyes.
It is hard when we've been hurt by our partner to be willing to invest in the relationship, but it is so worth it to keep your heart open, and to do real giving, the rewards are tremendous. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain, and what you teach your children, if you have them, will change their destiny.
Start with the LOVE ILLUSIONS.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001